We were talking about the phenomenon that happens to really unattractive men when we get to know them better. Over time, they become more and more handsome, and before long their personality melds with their appearance. It’s not as though Brad Pitt is any less hot, it’s that Brad Pitt is a little less relevant.
Sarah Overvoll stated it perfectly. “It’s like the molecules on his face rearrange a little bit every time I talk to him. He’s definitely more appealing than the last time I saw him.”
Maybe God built at least a good portion of us women not to be shallow. In which case I couldn’t take credit for my ability to evaluate independently of externals. But either way, men should feel blessed.